My Dad, The Dude

Dapper Dad

I love this photo of dad... I had not seen it until I was editing all our stuff in preparation for the move overseas last year.  Oh to have lived in that era of fabulous cars and clothes!

Not sure there is much news to add since last time.  When I visited on Tuesday, dad was still sitting in a water chair to reduce the stress on his pelvic fracture while it recovers. I asked him how he was doing.  He went to say something, then cleared his throat like he often does and then said, 'Pretty well thanks.' At least that's what I think he said. With each fall, he seems to lose more communication. I can't hardly understand him any more.

My dear sweet dad, who was once so big and strong; now too weak and frail to do anything for himself and that was his comment. "Pretty well, thanks".  I have been trying not to think about it, but writing this now brings it all back.  I feel so helpless and useless in the face of this disease, as he would as well.

A week or so ago, I posted about following The Tanaka Trimmer as he walks down from Brisbane to Sydney to raise money for Parkinson's and dementia. His nan has Parkinson's and told him she was not sure she wanted to reach her next birthday. This wretched disease steals all dignity, cognition, ability. He felt at loose ends as to what to do for her, so he is doing this walk to raise awareness. I feel at a loss as to what to do for dad, so I write out my frustration and sadness at this nasty disease.

The Tanaka Trimmer will be doing the final leg of his walk over the Harbour Bridge and into Martin Place at the end of next week. I plan to join the group on dad's behalf.  I feel helpless in light of the whole situation. Walking for awareness makes me feel like I can do something in some small way.  The final walk starts at 7am on the other side of town.  If you know me at all, you know I am usually counting sheep at this time of day.  Nevertheless... I considered all that dad puts up with in a day, and the least I can do is get up early one day... wish me luck!

Donate to the cause: http://www.mycause.com.au/mycause/raise_money/fundraise.php?id=53994
Facebook event: https://www.facebook.com/events/391951254206091/